Yep, same here. The noose that he put around us kids was his way as a good parent to illustrate 'There is no fucking way that you are going to get away with the shit that I did!'. ie.. Had a house party/orgy in the mid-50s in a very conservative neighborhood... up all night, then the next day flaunted the messy sex by drying all the recently washed bed sheets outside ... in front of the neighbor's back porch. Hmmmm, five sets of sheets + horny teenagers + up all night. Blew up street manholes and gutters with copper pipe and gunpowder. Drove expensive cars off the sides of mountains (and lived). Open containered and drove drunk (not condoning that stupidity). Banged chicks of different religions.
I was a frickin' saint compared to him. Forced me to take it all underground and be very, very secretive... which really spoils the let-loose freeballing attitude of the 80s.