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Site members can create their own journals and post comments. | Asshammered in court by lesbian judge. 05-20-2008 at 10:54 am
Greetings, friends and otherwise....
I am posting this from the CSU computer lab. It will be my new home computer for a whiles.
So back in court, after reading all the paperwork,dating back as far as 6 years,
I was totally made accountable for JR BOBS shit.
Seems a psycho kid is no justification for anything.
I watched the courtroom gasp in horror as the artwork was displayed on the big screen.
CPS covered their ass by noting the two discrepancies that had occurred in his care over the last 3 years (not having a car to deliver lunchmeds to the school,30 miles away & 2 missed therapy appointments)
I wound up blurting out something stupid, like," Oh yeah, thats why this kid is such a wreck...." and visions of suicide danced in my head.
Then I was forced to explain how it is hard to hold down a steady job when I am constantly having to be availible to pick the boy up on no notice, and for days on end as he is suspended, or in need of transport to docs out of town.
My last boss actually told me that he would make me management if I could only get my kid stable enough for me to work regularly.
She thanked my woman for coming in, then told me that I needed to go seek work . That is what I have wanted to do the most for almost 3 years now.
Wonder what she will say when Bobby goes on a rampage while I am at work, and I get fired for him again.
So I sat down and wrote a real honest suicide note.Fourteen pages front and back.
I had no idea how much better I would feel after doing that.Fact is, I feel a lot better having put those thoughts to paper. I burned it on the grill after reading it a couple of times, threw away my prozac, got on my bike, and am off to save my life again.
I have been out visiting my friends that I haven't seen in years, between job apps at shitty places. This time, for fun, I am going to find some shitty job wrapping tacos, so I don't feel bad when I get fired.
I also stopped caring what anyone thinks of me anymore. The judge has not walked my path with my disadvantages, so fuck her.
My woman is leaving, my van is gone forever. My daughter moved in with her girlfriends family for the time being. Its going to be the Bob and Bob show for the summer.
I've done all I can.
The kid is starting to get in line though, because the judge did tell him she was going to put him in foster care or juvie if he didn't knock off his shit.
Bobby has been sitting almost on top of me all the time, and hugging me, telling me he loves us all and is sorry, and wants to change.
I just hope he is telling the truth this time.
For his sake especially. He asked for his mothers address so he could send her some mail. I asked him why, and he told me that there were some things he needed to express to her, and he did not want me to read the letters.
I saw him stapling artwork to some sheets of paper.
I'll post it when he is done.
I"m not going to off myself as long as I have kids.
I don't want to be dead anymore............
Sincerely, Bob
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Dent 05-20-2008, 01:08 pm
Vas, give this guy a hug, with your lips.
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vasudeva 05-20-2008, 01:19 pm
Wow, you're in a lot deeper shit than I had guessed.
I burned it on the grill after reading it a couple of times, threw away my prozac, got on my bike, and am off to save my life again.
That's a pretty good development though.
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Clavis_Apocalypticae 05-20-2008, 02:46 pm
Never allow yourself to think that it can't get any worse; it can at any given moment. Luckily, the inverse is also true. That's the only thing that makes this stupid 80-odd years worthwhile.
Don't go wasting that good white skin. Put it, and it's inherent advantages, to work for you.
I'm glad you're not ded.
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magicchex 05-20-2008, 04:23 pm
What Clav said is very true. At times, when it seems like you've hit rock bottom, the floor will suddenly fall out from under you and you'll fall further. Then all of a sudden you'll find yourself flying higher than ever before with no forewarning. That rollercoaster is what makes it worth it so don't despair if things get worse; they will get better too.
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ragoo 05-20-2008, 04:51 pm
Linkswarm.com: Suddenly it's the Dr. Phil Show
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Heather 05-20-2008, 07:39 pm
Judge thinks parents are the fault of jr's fuckups, well aren't they? His effed up mother did this right? Tell the judge that?
you hope bobby means it this time, that he wants to change? He's 10 right [lol]?
Step mom sucks, sorry she's cut and run. If you and your bike plow through Texas, I'll tell Freakmachine to rape your tailpipe.
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Bobgoblin 05-21-2008, 10:20 am
I've been reading along on the various posts of your saga and, without going into too much detail, I know what you're up against.
With that said, here comes unsolicited advice from some tool you don't know:
Reactive Attachment Disorder. Has Bob Jr. been evaluated for it? Going by the history and behaviors you've reported, I'd bet money on it.
The good news is that it can be, for the most part, cured. Bob Jr. may never develop true empathy, but he can learn to emulate it with enough authenticity that it becomes "real" for him. He can also learn to attach to others.
The bad news is that it's going to take every moment of your time, over an extended period of time, and with adequate support from others involved in his treatment. If you're really going to make it the Bob and Bob Show this summer, that's a good time to start.
If he has been, or can be, diagnosed as RAD, he may also qualify as Severely Emotionally Disturbed (SED), which may entitle you to funds, as his caregiver/educator/therapy provider. Think of it as getting paid to parent, since his condition precludes you having stable employment outside the home.
I recommend a book called "When Love is Not Enough", by Nancy Thomas, as a good starting education into RAD and tools to manage your boy's care.
Finally, it's not a good idea to stop your Prozac suddenly without informing your doctor. If you want to get off of it, he may want to wean you to avoid unpleasant side effects. You're going to have to take care of yourself to take care of your son.
Good Luck and stay strong. You're going to have to be.
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wrecker 05-21-2008, 12:03 pm
I was diagnosed as RAD years ago. Then the 80's ended and I stopped being RAD.
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Acheron 05-21-2008, 06:14 pm
"Finally, it's not a good idea to stop your Prozac suddenly without informing your doctor. If you want to get off of it, he may want to wean you to avoid unpleasant side effects. You're going to have to take care of yourself to take care of your son."
I'd like to second that.
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Dumbskull 05-21-2008, 10:02 pm
If the woman is leaving, you are certainly better off without her and as for the van... tough break!
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bobacus 05-22-2008, 09:31 pm
Thanks all. I am starting lithium,btw.
Reactive attatchment was his first working diagnoses.
The woman finally realized I was going to cut and run, and has stepped up. (surprise,,,,,)
Fuck my Van. I went to say goodbye to it,dropped off the keys and got my shit out of it. I also took the ignition, the turn signal and wiper controls,and the fuse panel
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